Why Should We Change ?

At some point in our lives or might be right now you must have been going through a situation or a circumstance that you want to avoid or change. But guess what, the situations or your circumstances will never get solved they will just get a lot messier in the coming times. This is an age of dramatic and drastic changes. So we need to have some backup plans ready.

For doing this, we need to change ourselves. Change is inevitable. Change is necessary. You have to change. Or else the circumstances will change you. What I feel is that it's really up to you if you want to change yourself or you want the life to change you ? Because if you change yourself then you'll do that before the hammer falls on your head. But if life changes you, then I guess you'll change by the fall of the hammer on your head.

Okay, let's not get negative about the change and focus on why we need to change ?

You should change for the good. You should change to get your dreams. If your mouth speaks Lamborghini and your work ethics speak Honda then will you get Lamborghini? I don't think so. When our mouth speaks more than our work, that is just the very moment to shut up. If your car or bike gets outdated we change them. In the same way, to achieve something better in life we have to discard away all the bad constructions and design and construct some new beautiful monuments in our lives.  

Friends, life is difficult if you don't change with it. Change is necessary. 

When you were born did you have teeth ? 
No. You changed over time, right ? 

When you got married you didn't feel comfortable sharing your wardrobe rack with your spouse, right ? 
But you changed over time. 

When you didn't like some of the habits of your first girlfriend, didn't you change yourself ? 
I bet you did. 
Why ? Because you loved her.

You know what I've seen, mostly people can change themselves for someone else but rarely do they change themselves FOR themselves. Why is it that for something external we are so much willing to change than for ourselves? Might be that is because we don't value ourselves more than others. 

Why is there an external power that drives you to change ?  The external illusionary power is strong or your own infinite potential is ? 

I leave you with this question today because the moment you answer my this question, you'll automatically be willing to change for the good, that you so very much deserve. Start changing yourself for the good, then after some time, you'll be doing better and then suddenly someday you'll be doing extraordinary. And you'll be the best among the herd !!!

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.