Today’s
article is specially crafted for the ones who just celebrated their Valentine’s
Day.
Well, I
personally feel that there is nothing special about Valentine’s Day only and
if, you love your sweetheart all year round. But yes, if you forget to love
your darling all year, then buddy, you definitely should thank for having this
one day!
Okay jokes
apart, today I will share with you some simple ideas and tricks you can use to
amp up your love life because without that spark in your love life, you’ll lose
your mojo very soon. And there is nothing worse than a man without love in his
heart. Love drives all of us, love forces us to be better and it is love alone
which has motivated many men in history to become legends! Examples are Charles
Dickens and Abraham Lincoln to name a few.
Note : Just
don’t think that these points are only for the couples who have kids. This
article is for ALL who are in relationships.
It all
starts with…
1)
Schedule
It !
Properly arranged your office files? Check!
Set reminders for next week’s meetings? Check!
Allocated time for working extra this Friday? Check!
Made firm decision to invest more in equity? Check!
Set aside a date for your lovely wife/ girlfriend? Uh-Oh!
You got it. Didn’t you? Stop taking your loved one for granted. Make them
feel that they are valuable by giving them undivided attention and all the love
you store in each of the chambers of your heart. For doing this, during the
starting of every month, make the time to sit alone with your loved one, tell
them you just want their time and make a schedule to go on dates with them. And
please leave your kids at home then or to your parent’s house. It’s a time for YOU
BOTH ONLY !
2)
Family
time is different from the intimate time.
Many of us do the mistake that we think that spending time with family is same as spending time with your loved one. See, family time is a time for discussing family matters, intimate time is for all these things you used to talk about with your loved one when you didn’t have kids. Your wife/husband/better half needs your attention for their own stuff they want to talk about, not something related to the kids. Of course kids are important to your loved one as they are to you, but don’t forget to leave them behind in your lovely journey. Take them along with you.
3)
Bring
back that Old Love
C’mon, this one’s a no brainer. You know why you have lost your old love life somewhere in the backyard? Because you have burdened up yourself with too much obligations, too much work and too much responsibilities. STOP! Being so rude and selfish. Think about your love. Get flirty again the way you were in the past. While walking give a sudden kiss to him/her. They’ll be surprised and you surely will make them feel like those good old days are back!
ONLY YOU can bring back the spark, no one else will.
4)
Propose Her Again!
I think our better halves do for us much more than we think they do. So why not while you both are walking down the beach, sunset time, crisp air washing by your side, you kneel down and BANG! Pop the question to her again. Obviously she’ll be surprised. Don’t get shocked if she asks you if you’re okay or not. But this one act of yours will make the long beach walk perfectly beautiful for her… and for you as well!
So please,
spend a whole year like the way I have explained. And you’ll never have to wait
for the Valentine’s Day.
Loving fully is living openly. :)
Loving fully is living openly. :)
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Till next
time…
Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay
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