5 Tactics to Stop the wrong in your life, RIGHT NOW !

We all want to achieve our dreams.

Each one of us aspires to be regarded as a legend in our area of operation.

Not even a single human being on this planet would be there who has zero dreams.

So, what actually differentiates “a few” from the rest? 

We tend to wonder that these “Titans” started same way like us, still we lag behind and they produce huge turnovers, living the life we imagine.

To answer all such mind battling questions, I have designed these 5 tactics for you to apply to stop being a mediocre and start being a legend, like you have always wanted to be.

Awareness is very important. The only way to stop something that is going wrong in life is by making yourself aware of the following pointers and making sure that you apply them regularly.

1.    AWARENESS of the issue.

If you don’t even realize what thing is troubling you, it’s impossible to hit the target. Vague visions lead to Vague results.

2.    STATE what you want in a PERSONAL COMMITMENT AGREEMENT.

Just like every company has its own set of agreements like Articles and Memorandum of Association, I feel each one of us must have a personal commitment agreement, where we commit to the truest of ourselves, to work harder, to be more honest, to stop thinking and doing negative and to be a better human being with each and every passing day.

3.    ACTION.

You know something isn’t going on right. You have it what it takes to make it work. So why waiting? Get out, roll up your sleeves, get your hands dirty and carry on the work till its fruition. Human willpower can complete anything that it puts its hands on. Always remember that.

4.    HAVE FAITH.

Have faith in yourself and the power you have inside to change the wrong going through in front of you. The universe will try to break you at many points, at some points you will be discouraged to step out and let it go, but that will be the very moment when you will have to gather up your strength, tap into the hidden reservoirs of energy within you and bounce back 1000 times stronger !

5.    PERSIST TILL THE END. 

Millions don’t get their dreams or couldn’t solve their problems just because of the reason that they give up too soon. Sometimes yes the fight seems to be endless and we get tired of fighting, then there is the moment of decision. You can either decide to give up or you can review the reason why you started fighting the problem and get back up!

Hope my ideas will serve you in the best ways. Revise these points as much as you want. Do tell me your views and opinions in the comment box below.

Till next time.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.

Why your laziness will get you nowhere?

It feels so good when you are sitting in front of your TV or playing your favorite game and a large pizza, large coke and all the tasty burgers and chips are there to give you the best possible company. You are munching on them as if they're never gonna end and the game or the movie just adds spice to the aura. No one is there to disturb you. No one gives a damn about what you're doing and neither do you give a damn about the world. You don't care about the world. The world seems to be an illusion for you and the game or the movie seems to be your sole mission of the life. You just don't care that who will pay the bills and how. The movie/game is your life. When once you got rejected by a beautiful girl you slip into the abyss of depression and the combination of the movie and pizza seems to you like the only way to escape it. Your family is fed up with you and so are you fed up with them. This way, days slip into weeks, weeks slip into months and months slip into years and one day, You're a fat ugly guy. It feels to you as if a big inflated tire is tied around your belly making you look so ugly. Then you start blaming all the people who were behind it, slipping again into that comfortable couch loaded with piles of pizzas and endless cans of coke.

And then, you welcome yourself to "Lazy Land". How does it feel to live in here? Terrible? Yes, undoubtedly.

 So you are spending endless days in front of your TV or the PlayStation and enjoying your pizzas, dude, Is that what life is? I know you'll say to me "Prateek, hell yes! That is life" and in saying this, somewhere down the line you're insecure. You're afraid to be out in the world and play your part. You're a coward. Many times our egos are the curtains to hide our insecurities and that is exactly what you're doing. If you call your couch as the most comfortable place in the world, then please get up and take a whiff of reality, because that's not what's gonna be there in your life always. That is not gonna be the medium to pay your bills.

I know a friend of mine who used to do this all day, I said him a few words and they were harsh, rude and blunt. We didn't talk for many months for the words I said to him, hurt him badly but those were the injections to his self-esteem. And he's doing pretty well in his life now. What I said to him was "R, dude what are you doing? Are you a human or a dog? A real human being works hard to earn his bread whereas a street dog just eats up whatever is thrown towards him which is mostly the leftovers of others. Who are you? I see no difference between you and the dog. You are living on your parent's checks" and then damn! He was hit. Hit like a bullet straight in his heart. I wanted to do that only. But yes, that talk changed him for life. Look at him now and he's much fitter than me! Look at this diagram below and it might give you some realistic idea about what your laziness is doing up to you.

I know I am a bit blunt in this blog post but I just have to. For your betterment. Your fitness levels showcase your mental levels to the world. Like we took the example of a girl earlier, a girl will only like you if she sees that you do take care of your health. Eating up those pizzas now is enjoying, why so? Because your parents are paying the bills. After your parents are gone who will then pay the bills of your pizzas? Ignorance isn't the solution here, awareness is.Laziness very often breeds procrastination, which is the primary reason why average people remain average all their lives. 

Deep inside we all have a longing to realize our truest potential. We all want to change the world. We all want to drive great expensive cars. We all want to live in big houses. We all want to be millionaires. But all this can't just happen with a snap! It takes hard work and dedication. 

By shedding up all the habits that make you lazy, by transcending that "lazy feel", by giving yourself constant motivation that you have to make your today better than your yesterday, you'll automatically set yourself up to win. You'll discover more amazing stuff in the world. You'll see that your PlayStation or the movie can't give you that much happiness than making yourself work harder every day to strive for your aspirations. Once the couch that felt comfortable while playing on your PlayStation will now seem to you like the most uncomfortable place. And why will this happen?because you'll realize that your couch was just a sneaky little tiny hole where you hide from the reality of the world as if it never existed.

 There's no wrong in playing games on PlayStation as well,  do it, but with regard to time. I myself love playing games. But don't play them that often. 

Now I leave you with another question...

EITHER FEED YOUR MIND WITH ALL THE EXCUSES OR FEED YOUR MIND WITH PASSION, DEDICATION, AND WILLPOWER TO STRUGGLE.

Results do vary on both the sides.

YOUR FITNESS IS 100% MENTAL, YOUR BODY WON’T GO, WHERE YOUR MIND WON’T PUSH IT.

Till next time.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy. Stay active. 

What have you learned from life?

What have you really learned from life? It's not possible that till date you haven't faced any difficult situations in life. I know you have. So first of all, my heart goes to all of you who have fought so bravely till now in your life. Am always a fan of people who have fought hard, very hard in life.  And secondly, now I would like you to please visit those memories again. What did you learn from them?

Might be a loved one left you because they cheated on you or you cheated them. Might be you went through some terrible things at school that still haunts you. Might be you faced a big challenge in life that you never thought you would be able to face. It could be anything. Different individuals, different problems, different experiences  therefore different learning.

What all you have learned in life after facing all of your problems can be put in the following points, if you may, allow me to do the honor :-

1) Existence of the Infinite Intelligence

During your that difficult situation didn't you feel the existence of someone up there who's looking at you, he knows you're struggling and still throwing more challenges to you. Did you ever feel that?

If yes, then let me congratulate you because my dear, you are one of his bravest soldiers sent on this planet. Why does a teacher give the toughest question to only selective students in the class? Because the teacher knows that "that" particular student can handle this question, and if he/she can't, at least, their mental muscle will be exercised. That's the same way with God. He knows you can handle it. He throws tough situations because he wants to bring out the bravest version of you. So next time you see another big challenge, don't say " C'mon man! How the hell can I handle this situation? Are you serious? " Instead of this say "You testing me God, Alright man! Bring it on! "

2) The Bravest version of you

This is obviously connected to point 1. Yes, when you put in your level best and achieve a point when you can't give in even 1% more, and still after this you push yourself, that is the point when you start unleashing the real tiger, the real brave version of you. Because anyone can work to the point of exhaustion, but those rare people who still push themselves harder and reach "the arena of the genius" are called as legends in their fields. Don't you wanna be among them? I know you do. Well, that's why am here, to help you, to guide you, to motivate you in every way I can.

3) Something for Nothing rule

You always have to give something in the universe to get something from it. The universe works in perfect balance. The earth revolves around 365/366 days. The food that you eat always has the same taste and same color. The clock always had 24 hours and it will. Everything in life works in a balance. 

Now if we talk about imbalance. What happens when people try to do damage to the mother earth? Volcanic eruptions, tsunamis, floods, droughts, earthquakes etc take place.

The nature loves balance. So if you want something from the higher power, you have to give something to it. Sometimes you will have to pay larger amount as compared to what you're getting. Let me warn you about that. But that's just him taking a test of you. Chill about that. You want your favorite car ? Name it, tell it to the Universe and then put your heart and soul to get it. See, if you're not ready to put in the required amount of hard work how will you prove to the God that you're even worth for what you're wishing for. 

Even if you want a kiss from your girlfriend you need to give her time. No offense to all the ladies out there, but yes you know what am talking about, right? To get something you have to give something. You want your girlfriend's love, give her time. You want to get good grades, give time. You want to build a great business, give time. The only thing you can get without giving something in return is- failure, and that is in itself the worst liability to be acquired.

4) The biggest tornados in our lives are the biggest teachers.

I have faced many tornados in life. And I know you have as well. I've learned a lot from them. They just don't discover the true potential in you but they also make you feel proud of what you can do. All these tornados must have caused a lot of destructions in your, either personal or professional lives, but don't you think that old constructions need to be destroyed to build some new constructions? Old habits need to be destroyed to replace them with new habits. Old beliefs need to be shattered to accept the new ones. Old traditions and patterns need to be destroyed to get to some rare air success. 

In the same way, we need these torments in our lives as well. I am still thankful to God for giving me theses torments in life. Many times these torments will define you. Let them do it. My torments have defined Me. Let your torments define you. Go with the flow.

5) My problems are always bigger than others'.

Everyone has problems, right? But how can you get success? By focusing on your problems or your opportunities? Opportunities, right? So why to think about your problems. The grass is always greener on the other side. Praise what you have. Not everyone has that privilege to it. Take, for example, not all have the two eyes with which you are reading this blog right now. Praise even the smallest thing that you have. Be grateful for what you have and never stop aiming for something higher. You're an eagle. Born to rule the sky.

These were the things I've learned from life. Would be glad to know your own views. Please do comment below.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.