How to be the real YOU ? (Part 1 of 4)

So the process of how to be the real you starts with this simple step.

STEP - 1: Defining yourself, that who you are?

There is something very funny about us humans. Whenever we’re said to talk or explain about someone else on the earth that we know, without even wasting a second we start explaining that person from our own respective point of views. But if the same question is asked again replacing the word “someone else” with “you” the same person who spoke at length about someone else, he’s now silent !!!Void ! No sound!

Why this happens that we are not able to describe ourselves in such a transparent manner, that we use that same transparent glass to look at the other person and assess him according to our own beliefs? 

Why does this happen that we have to think a lot to even describe ourselves in one ten line paragraph and we don’t even need a second to think and write about someone else that we know? 

Why do our minds need hard thinking to think about ourselves?

And Why do so easily thoughts flow into our minds when we’re said to speak about someone else? Why does this all happen anyway?

One simple answer for this is that the same way in which we assess others we usually don’t assess ourselves in the same way. Let’s do a small fun exercise. 

Write down the weak points of 5 people you know very well. Make short points. Take maximum 5 minutes for this exercise giving each minute to each separate person. Done? Now, on the same page please note down your own weaknesses. Can You? I guess you won’t be. Many people who are posed with this question are stuck. For some strange reason, we can’t do that. We are so much obsessed with the habit of blaming and ill-treating others that our minds, that we have become habitual to it. And when we ask our minds to say something about ourselves it has no answer. Yes, no answer comes up in the mind because we don’t even spend a few minutes to study ourselves and note down our own weaknesses and strengths. This is the reason that why am here to help you out. This is the one reason why this blog is here, enlightenment. Enlightenment of the inner you. Enlightenment of the genius in you. Enlightenment of the best version of yourself.

Now what I want you to note down, are your own strengths and weaknesses. But please, first of all, note down your own strengths and then your weaknesses. Yes, it will be difficult to note down your own weaknesses and bad habits. But, transformation of the world starts from one single man. All the great leaders till date had one thing in common, they were the fearless, powerful, determined titans of their fields. They all first motivated themselves that they can do it, then the world followed them. So, take the lead, start today and the world will follow you.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy. 

[Read : How to be the real YOU ? (Part 2 of 4) ]