How To Make The Most Of This Valentine's Day ! (Being Single)

Okay so yeah! The Valentine’s day is coming up and you are again heaped with all that guilt, sorrow and disappointment that why you do not have a lover to spend your day with.

No Issues ! Today I would like to present to you (the single guys and girls) with some simple tips on How You Can Make The Most of this Valentine’s Day being Single.

Let’s shift some gears and jump right into the pointers. 

1)    INTROSPECT

Valentine’s Day is a sign of Love (You obviously know that) so let me ask you two simple questions related to that only...
Do you love yourself fully?
Have you been in touch with your inner self all the time?

Some of us search love when we are devoid of it in our lives. Well, that is just another formula for an unhappy and unsuccessful way of living. See, you cannot love anyone fully if you don’t even love yourself. Make sure that you  that you love yourself fully and then only you can love someone openly. Stop looking for love. Instead spread it ! You will definitely meet the person you are made for as and when the frequency matches.

This Valentine’s Day, sit alone, do some introspection and dwell around on your dreams and aspirations you are working hard for. Make sure that you get soaked up in it so that you can call it as a Beautiful day at the end. ;)

2)    TAKE OUT YOUR OLD LOVE

No, I don’t mean here to your ex. I simply mean here by taking up something that you always couldn’t find time for. We all have said something like, “Yeah, I would do this more often if I could just spare a few hours, but you know am damn busy.”
Well, this is the day when you should go back and give a warm visit to all of those earlier small unfulfilled desires you had.
Now go up dust off that guitar of yours and play to your heart’s content. Or if you like cooking, make yourself a nice dish and treat yourself with it. Or go to an adventure trip you have been delaying for months!
Nobody is bound to make you happy. Neither are you bound to make anyone happy. So why not stop complaining and start creating more happiness ? ;)
 

3)    CUT OFF FROM THE SOCIAL WORLD

All of those couples you know will be posting tons of kisses and hugs with their ‘better half’ on all the social networking sites you know, even though they could be unsatisfied inside, but yes, their pics and all those lovely messages would be irritating your monkey heart. So please skip the social media today.
 

4)    GENERATE LOVE

 This Valentine’s Day, don’t look for love, create it ! It takes a much braver heart to create love and give it before you get it. Do something for the needy or the poor. Make the time to visit an orphanage or an old age home. Those people desperately need love. Make them feel that they are not ‘taken granted for’ and that they are ‘valuable’ for someone in this age of selfishness. Just watch the smile you’ll bring to their faces. Priceless. :)

 

5)    READ A BOOK ! 

 I mean really, you couldn’t think me ending this article without referring to read a book. ;)
Well, I think instead of fretting all day and counting those reasons why you are still single, the best thing to do would be to go on a date with the greatest humans who have ever lived on this planet earth. You can go on a date with Martin Luther King Jr. or Mahatma Gandhi or Nelson Mandela or Benjamin Franklin, pick whoever you want!  There is no price tag you can ever attach to the wisdom you can reap by spending hours completely drenched in the study of such great humans. 

6)    FINALLY… FAMILY TIME ! :)

All too often we tend to take things for granted when we start getting used to them. Just because you see your parents, sister, brother everyday does that mean that you should stop loving them ?

Now if you are saying to me, “No! I love them!”

Well, then when was the last time you had a heart to heart talk with them and made them feel how much they mean to you and conveyed a simple “I LOVE YOU” to them with the most sincere heart ?

If you didn’t, then please go do it. RIGHT NOW !

They know you love them, you know they love you but please don’t let the work pressure burden you this time. Take time off and make them feel that yes they are loved.

Till next time.

Keep spreading love. :) <3