Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Stay Calm

This word "calmness" is having some magic in it. Let me explain that magic to you.

Being calm gives a sense of freedom. It makes you feel that whatever challenges you're facing through are not the product of your problems, your challenges are the product of your opportunities yet to be seized.
Whenever you feel that you're stuck in something much difficult than your potential, just close your eyes and believe that there is a higher power above your head that will protect you always. And at this point, the serenity, the pureness and the presence of the almighty that you feel is called as BEING CALM.


Few points on how you can be calm :-

1) stay happy always
2) may what problems come in front of you, remind yourself that you're better than that
3) feel the presence of the Almighty
4) request the Almighty to come into your life
5) whenever you feel tensed, as you will be, take deep breaths, drink some water and most importantly, focus on the Almighty.

Believe that he's there and you will find Him.


Hope can grow flowers in a rough land, so why can't you get God ?
He loves you more than you can think of.



Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.

Friday, March 25, 2016

What should we chase?

 Why do we chase?

The most certain answer to this is that because we are goal seeking animals. We want to chase something or the other in our lives. One moment it's the new burger introduced by McD and the other moment it's the new I-phone introduced by Apple. Well, I don't have any objections against it. But my main focus is on the fundamental need of the humans to chase and that's perfectly okay. This kind of instinct is very natural. We're born with it. It's in our trait.




But, do we ever realise that whatever we are chasing is aligned to our dreams or not ? Is whatever we're doing each day in alignment with our core values? Is our every activity taking us one step ahead of our goals?


I think you should take some time and think about this.



People these days chase what's fake. People these days go for the fancy. Like for example, people chase the fancy actors and actresses. See, I don't have any problems with that and I respect that profession, in fact, many actors like Robert Downey Jr and much more are my favorite. But what I want to show you is that, why get impressed so much by them that you completely forget who you are. This is the main problem with it. I want you to focus on being you. Why chase what's fake?

Life gives you opportunities. Chase what you want. Chase your dreams. Chase the best in what you do. Chase in being the better version of yourself each and every day. There is a very great taste in chasing your dreams. Am feeling it. Each and every time I write these blog posts, I feel that they make me feel more alive.

And when I see a person doing something filled up of passion I can see the fire in his eyes. And seriously telling you, I love it! I want that fire. That is the fire of passion. That is the fire of a burning desire in their souls that gets reflected through their eyes. I've seen the fire in the eyes of my heroes. That is one of the reasons why I love them, that fire, that's what am chasing, That is what I feel that calls me.

I leave these questions to you :-

What are you chasing ?
What are those things that you feel call you?
What are those aspirations in your life for which you can forego anything be it your sleep or food?
 


Build yourself so gorgeous that world starts chasing you, just to know the secret on how you achieved such humongous levels of excellence in your craft. 
Build a brand that leaves behind a mega legacy







Till next time. 




Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy. 

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

How to Prioritize Your Day In The Best Possible Way

What do you focus on in your life? What are those things, around which your day revolves? What is the thing on which you spend most of your time?  This is what we define as our priorities. Priorities are those things on which we spend our whole day.

Now let me ask you a simple question:- what is that thing on which you spend a lot of time in your whole day? I know that the answers to this would be separate as we all are separate individuals. But are you going in the right direction ? Whatever thing you are spending most of your time on, can you see some sort of route through it which leads you to your dreams?

If not then, where are you going? Just think about this. What life are you leading then? What is the purpose of your life? The sole purpose of life should be leading a life of purpose.

Martin Luther King said it so beautifully that,” If you haven't found something worth dying for, then you are not fit to live” 

Many of us spend the best of our days chit chatting, too much SMS, too much Facebook, too much Whatsapp, too many distractions, thus too much wasting of time. And then we sacrifice on our sleep to gain back the time we have lost in the day. And by doing this, the sleep deprivation makes our body weak. Thus, wasting of our body. So you see, the lack of prioritization wastes our potential, wastes our health, wastes our emotional happy state and to sum it up, it  is harmful to us. I think it's worse than any deadly disease. This particular disease starts from our own ways of spending our days.



See, This is what happens when you don’t focus on your To Dos List. We all make this To Do List very enthusiastically and very professionally. But the moment it comes to implementation, we procrastinate. Here are some simple steps on how to prioritize your day in the best possible manner : -

1)    In the morning, as you wake up do the most important thing in the very first few hours of the day.
 In this way, your that most important work can avail the benefits of your fresh mind. And you can achieve the “big goal of the day” much successfully.

2)    Wake up Early !
I know , its difficult. But is it much more valuable to you than your dreams? No, Isn’t it ? So please wake up early. Because when you will wake up early and do your “big goal of the day” successfully, guess what it gives? It gives a sense of confidence, a sense of satisfaction. And it also leaves you with lots of leisure time in the day to relax and rejuvenate yourself.

3)    Make a time table.

Schools have taught this. Teachers have taught this. And you can easily search the net for advantages of a time table. So am skipping to the next point. 

4)   Write your next day’s goals in the evenings.

As and when you are free from work and return home, give at least 15 minutes to build up your next day’s To Do List. Keep it short, simple and don’t make this list in the nights. Otherwise, your mind will always be stuck that you have some pending things to do and thus you won’t be able to sleep peacefully in the night.

5)   Don’t Put too many things in your plate.

Prioritization is done to make things simple and when you try to add up too many things in your To Do list, it gets tiring to even see it! And thus you don’t need any better reason to procrastinate.

6)   Don’t stress if you can’t do some things in the list.

We’re humans so yes, we do have limits and responsibilities and the tendencies to get deviated from our track. But if still due to some important reasons, you couldn’t complete your tasks don’t stress it, smile, stay happy and focus on what you have achieved and simply put that thing on the next day’s list.

So there you have it, a few simple ideas to take your life from mediocre level to the genius level.








Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.



Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Be the Lion, Not the Sheep

Goals, aims, aspirations, desires, wishes, they all refer to the same thing. Yes, they are different if you see them technically but for a normal person, these all things are same. They mean the same to a common man.

Bringing bread to the table, having a car, a house to live in, a job to work and a few investments here and there to support your retirement. What’s the use of living life so little? By no means, I am against the principle of simple living, yes, the happiness of life resides in small things like having dinner with your family on a small table, that warmth, love, care and laughter with each other can never be experienced by you in a 7-star restaurant. But what I suggest you to do is :-

Why not think BIG? 
Why not think of having a bigger house? 
Why not think of driving a Lamborghini or an Aston Martin? 
Why not make your childhood dreams true? 
Why not go for the lion instead of chasing the sheep? 
Why not take your dreams to a new level every time you step out on your playing field of work? 
Why not go to the extremes and push yourself a bit harder?

Believe me; you just need to feel “that feel” for once. Life will show you something you’ve never felt. I’ve felt that the moment you step out of your comfort zone and you enter the region of the uncomfortable, your freedom starts to display itself.

Go to the limits. Go to your extremes. Go and make your dreams come true. No matter how much the people criticize you or try to knock you down, don't buy into their opinion. Actually, all those naysayers who bring you down, they are jealous of you. They are jealous of the genius in you. They are jealous of the expertise in you. They very well know that your future life will be better than theirs, and they can't see that, that's why they are constantly trying to bring you down.

Well, this is the habit of the mediocrity. Once it notices anyone from its crowd getting up and trying to get out of it, the mediocrity crowd pushes the person back into the crowd sucks it back into the wormhole of mediocrity. And many of the geniuses remain living as mediocrity whole of their life !

I really don't want that to happen to you. I still can't estimate how much human potential is remaining to be tapped which is currently trapped in this black hole of mediocrity. 




Every day you step out of your home for work, remind yourself to do the best way whatever you do. And yes, life is so small. Why have small goals for it? When you're very much hungry what would you like to have? A small packet of French fries or some 2-3 burgers to satisfy your hunger?

That's the same way your inner soul is. It has hunger for success, dreams, to change the world, to make an image in the society, and most importantly… hunger for significance. Hunger for leaving behind a legacy, that's what I am all about, and I know that's what you're all about.

So why live among the sheep when you know you're a lion? A lion born to rule. A lion born to live for his dreams to get his dreams. so, be a lion, not the sheep.

Sir Richard Branson said it so beautifully that “ if your dreams don't scare you, they are too small “




Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy. 

Wednesday, March 09, 2016

What is the True Power of Performing At Your World Class ?

Each one of us is a performer in some way or the other in our respective lives. Right now a schoolboy in India is performing on the stage of his annual day play at school. Somewhere someone in Germany is performing in his business meeting. Somewhere in the USA, there is a mother preparing breakfast for her family with utmost love and care. Somewhere in Nigeria, a father is dropping off his daughter first time to her school.

All of these people are performers in some way or the other. There is a unique power when you perform your duties. Be it a leader or not, be it a teacher or not, be it a truck driver or not, your work defines you. It defines who you are. Let me refine that, by no means am saying that if you sweep streets it defines how low class person you are, WHAT I MEAN is that the way you do your work, the way you carry out your daily chores, the way you find the excitement in your boring routines, this particular “act of courage”  ,the fire to find best in everything, this is the thing that defines who you really are. And it does speak a lot about you.


Martin Luther King stated it so beautifully that,” a street sweeper should sweep streets so amazingly that when the angels of the heavens pass on from the above they get surprised and say Here lived a street sweeper who did his work so amazingly “


This is the power of the work which really defines you.What I believe in is that A man is not known by his name, he is known for his work. His Work is his Real Name.

What I really want you to do is that from now itself do your work so amazingly that the world just can’t stop itself from praising you. How would it feel? WOW ! Isn’t it? 
Some Quick tips to achieve your own unique level of greatness: -

1)          Never ever settle for the ordinary. Always push the envelope. Nothing hurts worse than the pain of never trying.

2)          Don’t pay attention to the naysayers. It’s their job to "say". Do what you love. Be it that way. If it matters the most to you, if it is the thing that makes you work till 3 am in the morning without feeling tired then my dear friend you have found the thing in life that will give you a kick!

3)          Whatever work you do in your daily life, try finding out something exciting every now and then to keep yourself energetic, your motivation levels high and to keep you feeling that you are doing something meaningful in life.

4)          When you perform, no matter where it is or what it is, that act of performance is a live example of your talents, skills, abilities, qualities and your innate love for the art you’re pursuing so make sure you render an exquisite piece of art.  



There is this one thing I strongly believe in whenever you perform to your highest level and when you try to reach even higher and higher, you take that jump, that leap of faith when the whole universe conspires to make your dreams come true. Those dreams don’t remain impossible by then.

If your work matters to you, you’ll definitely feel the power of your performance and when you will feel it, that will be the point you’re entering the arena of the genius!

Why wait?

Go for it !!!


This world is a massive stage. We all have some roles to play. We just never know that when it will be over. So why not give it our best shot and make the world give us a standing ovation! Sounds cool?







Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.



Monday, March 07, 2016

How to be the real YOU ? (Part 4 of 4 )



Hello, Friends ! Hope you all are doing great!

Life’s  not always an easy ride. Well, had some tough days recently. But yes they taught me a lot and they provided me with some beautiful insights to share with you on this final blog post on "How to be the REAL YOU?"

So, here it goes:-


1)    Be Your Own Model

 Many of us have set up someone as our role models. They are the people who influence our lives in some way or the other. They motivate us. They inspire us. Directly or indirectly. What I urge you to do is, adapt the qualities of these people in yourself. Yes, it will be difficult. But, whatever comes free in life is always of lowest quality.



2)    Face Up Your Fears

Our Fears are nothing but those imaginary beings in our minds, created by us or the world outside. These parasites slowly and steadily eat up our own potential, our caliber and our confidence. And if you  notice carefully and go in detail about your fears, you will notice that yes they were imposed on us by the world. We have bought those fears from the weak minded individuals living with us in this society. Well, obviously you can't ignore these people but please, please and please go to your fears. A beautiful insight for you: - your fears scare you, right? Wouldn’t it feel good to you if you scare your fears away? I know it would. Have been there. Done that. Felt euphoric. !  I’ll dedicate one blog post to you on how to face up your fears. Look out for it in the future. Acting in the face of fear is scary, I agree, but yes this is the point where an abundance of growth resides. So, Fear your Fears. 








3)    Live Life Full Out

Let me ask you, are you really living up your life? Are you really being the small child at heart? If not, then let me tell you that you are still not living up your life. The real version of you deserves to shine out and make the world go wow with his/her expertise in whatever you’re doing. How would feel if everything that you wanted from your life gets presented to you in a few days or months? Now welcome to the reality. This thing never happens and never will until and unless you live out your every day like it’s your last. Small things in life, matter a lot. That chirping of the birds in the morning, the laughter of your kids, the good morning kiss of your spouse, the silent walks down the beach, that madness overloaded dance in the rain, all these things cost nothing and still we take them for granted and miss them out. I gently suggest you to enjoy these small things because they are the “living life full out moments.”



4)    Take calculated risks

All top people in every industry have the eye for a future opportunity. They all make calculated decisions and most of the times, they win out. What the mediocrity sees as a risk the genius notices it as an opportunity to amp up the game. Yes, the elite players know that the risk they are taking could be very costly but can you put a price tag on the feeling when you achieve success after doing the risk? No. You can’t.



5)    Smile


The first thing you and I did after the birth was a smile.(besides crying, just kidding guys) and still many of the people I know, they just don’t smile properly. I feel like asking them “sir, has the government put up some taxes on you for smiling?” Smiling makes us happy. It makes you feel that every problem you’re facing right now is small. And believe me, instead of going to the doctors and spending thousands of dollars to lower your stress levels, just buy some good funny movies and sit back and put your cell phones on silent. You’ll see the change yourself. It will be worth the investment.





6)    Burn your worries

Bruce Lee, heard the name? He used to do this technique. He always used to write down his worries on a piece of paper and then burn up that paper. According to him, that burning paper would make him feel as if his worries and tensions are getting burned.



7)    Last but not the least- Focus up your life on what you want, not on what you don’t want.


You want happiness, go for it! You want success, go for it! You want love, go for it! Do you want the best in the world? Go For It !!!

Life is too small… Why waste each day?



Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.  

Tuesday, March 01, 2016

How to be the real YOU ? (Part 3 of 4)




Step - 3:  Revisit your childhood days





When you even say the word "children", don’t you feel a bit of joy and happiness in your heart? 

Those of you all who have children must now be having the faces of your children in front of your eyes and those who don’t have children, must now be revisiting their own childhood memories. 
Do you really know what makes the small children so adorable? Well, it is the glitter in their eyes, their innocence, and their very nature of being connected to their truest selves that make them so adorable. And how can we forget their smiles ? Their smiles are so contagious that even the person who had the worst day will be smiling. Why does it happen that when you come from your work, tired and all stressed up and then to add to your stress your boss calls you up and gives you some strict word, but then only, you see your small child coming from his room running towards you and hugs you, your stress and anxiety just get vanished with that small magic hug. What do you feel after it? Elated? Euphoric, right?

That feeling of a baby’s smile, it communicates the music of his pure soul to your own soul and it is just beyond comparison. This feeling always connects me to my mortality. Am not being negative, but that is what moves me the most. I do feel that the most difficult problems in our lives can be solved only by one cute smile from your little angel. Those little angels are truly the messengers of god. All our problems, worries, anxieties and tensions are solved in a snap of your fingers. You know why those little angels can solve all your problems? The reason is that they don’t take life too seriously.

Kindly notice any small child when they’re doing some work which they are very much passionate about. Those small kids are very much passionate and alive while doing their work that we can feel that passion. 

I recently noticed my cousin brother. He was busy doing drawing different cartoons. He’s a beautiful cartoonist. He draws very amazing cartoons. And while he was fully engaged in his work, all of us in the house mattered the least to him. Well, that’s what genius is all about. This universe will surely support those who devote themselves fully to their craft and promise themselves to render the exquisite amount of creativity that the world just can’t ignore the genius in them.

Isn’t it funny that these small children who learn everything from us become our best teachers sometimes? We never know that when our life will show us our teacher. That particular person can be anyone and can meet us anywhere. Please be ready always. I suggest you to always be ready for the teacher of yours. When the student will be ready the teacher will surely present himself.

Model the small children, their passion, persistence and the fire with which they engage themselves in their work, It's truly breathtaking.