A valuable lesson to learn from Mr. Bean

I love watching Mr. Bean series. I've actually watched all of the original ones so now am left with only the cartoon version, but it's funny as well!

There are many lessons that we can learn from the character of Mr. Bean.

First of all, Rowan Atkinson is a LEGEND! A true Genius! I think nobody could ever play that character that well, in the whole mankind, the way he has played it so flawlessly. So this blog post is dedicated to his most popular character on screen, Mr. Bean!

The simple and small lesson I've learned from Mr. Bean is that even though he doesn't own a big Lamborghini or a big mansion, he still feels himself as the king of the world. His little green and black car seems like a Rolls Royce to him and his small cozy apartment seems to him like the sweetest place to live on Earth. Never sees challenges as challenges, rather sees them as opportunities and always proves to be clever of the lot! He really knows how to draw happiness worth millions from the tiniest of things. And that is TRUE GREATNESS! If you don't believe me go watch his video on YouTube titled "Mr. Bean in room no. 420" It is one of my favorites! Life seems to throw its challenges to him, but this man! This man always seems to have a solution for everything! Give him a to work as a dentist,he'll do it great ! Besides the fact that you'll end up getting all your teeth filled with medicine! (Hope you have seen his episode of Mr. Bean and the Dentist). And he's the best barber in the town as well ! Amazing haircuts with tons of laughter! (Mr. Bean barber episode). And The Teddy! Who can forget him?

So, in short, we can say that he is a totally fun guy. So why not we, be a guy like him or a mother like him or a CEO like him. No am not referring to carelessness depicted in the serial, that is just added in the series to make it look funny to the audience. But what I refer here is, why not we enjoy each and every moment of our life just like him? Why shouldn't we love our dear ones so much today, as if there is no tomorrow? Why shouldn't we, for a moment, forget about being a CEO or a manager and then talk to a stressed out employee on a friendly level? Where has anything but that habit of smiling gone?

Please incorporate all of his good attributes to pick up from, to elevate the way you do your current work. Your work represents you. Have fun so that you can increase your happiness to another level of bigness.

If you are right now at your workplace, kindly get up and go to your nearest human being, take their hand in yours and tell them how much you value them and the significance they hold for you. Or go home and hug your sweetheart so tightly that you make her blush all night and tell her "I love you" like you mean it and then take that person or your wife whoever it is, and watch a Mr. Bean episode with them. (It could be your children also)

And if you are alone and with strangers, get up, go to your nearest human being. Talk to them. Give some human touch. And watch any Mr. Bean video with them. Am sure you'll end up making a good friend for life. :)

Spread smiles!

By the way, did you ever wonder how Mr. Bean used to earn his living? I've been puzzled a lot by this question sometimes. Enjoy your day. 

Till next time.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.

Why Should We Change ?

At some point in our lives or might be right now you must have been going through a situation or a circumstance that you want to avoid or change. But guess what, the situations or your circumstances will never get solved they will just get a lot messier in the coming times. This is an age of dramatic and drastic changes. So we need to have some backup plans ready.

For doing this, we need to change ourselves. Change is inevitable. Change is necessary. You have to change. Or else the circumstances will change you. What I feel is that it's really up to you if you want to change yourself or you want the life to change you ? Because if you change yourself then you'll do that before the hammer falls on your head. But if life changes you, then I guess you'll change by the fall of the hammer on your head.

Okay, let's not get negative about the change and focus on why we need to change ?

You should change for the good. You should change to get your dreams. If your mouth speaks Lamborghini and your work ethics speak Honda then will you get Lamborghini? I don't think so. When our mouth speaks more than our work, that is just the very moment to shut up. If your car or bike gets outdated we change them. In the same way, to achieve something better in life we have to discard away all the bad constructions and design and construct some new beautiful monuments in our lives.  

Friends, life is difficult if you don't change with it. Change is necessary. 

When you were born did you have teeth ? 
No. You changed over time, right ? 

When you got married you didn't feel comfortable sharing your wardrobe rack with your spouse, right ? 
But you changed over time. 

When you didn't like some of the habits of your first girlfriend, didn't you change yourself ? 
I bet you did. 
Why ? Because you loved her.

You know what I've seen, mostly people can change themselves for someone else but rarely do they change themselves FOR themselves. Why is it that for something external we are so much willing to change than for ourselves? Might be that is because we don't value ourselves more than others. 

Why is there an external power that drives you to change ?  The external illusionary power is strong or your own infinite potential is ? 

I leave you with this question today because the moment you answer my this question, you'll automatically be willing to change for the good, that you so very much deserve. Start changing yourself for the good, then after some time, you'll be doing better and then suddenly someday you'll be doing extraordinary. And you'll be the best among the herd !!!

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy. 

Why Do We Get Hurt ?

"Why do we expect something from someone?" Isn't this the question you have had in your mind at least once till this day?

It's okay to have this question in our minds. We're humans, we are bound to expect. 

When a small baby cries, he is expecting his mother to come running to him and give him his bottle of milk. The act of expectations is in our traits. We can't run from it but yes we can be selective in our expectations.

 I have seen many times that when people love someone or show care to someone, they expect the same in return. Yes, I agree that it is natural and you will expect, but many times we don't get it back. And when we don't get it back we start blaming that person and we start to dislike him/her. Doesn't that show that you're being selfish? You loved someone in order to get love back from them. Isn't that being selfish? Yes, it is being selfish.

 I believe love should be void of all these things. If you love someone truly, shower them with your love, kindness and care. And never expect it back. This is what is called true love. And believe me, if you'll do it you'll get it back in multiples.

If you want to expect something from someone then expect a genius from you.
Expect to be the best in whatever endeavor you are in. 
Expect to stand for the highest values you hold true to your heart. 
Expect yourself to give in a little bit extra every time you work hard on your craft.
Expect yourself to love all, without any hatred or negative feelings.

I know it hurts when you're expecting something and you don't get it. But you know what, if you really cared for someone and they didn't reciprocate to you when you needed it, it shows that you're a better human being than them. How's that for a change of thought?

With that said, I would like to suggest you that might be the other person is busy or going through something tough in their personal lives or they’re struggling financially. You never know what problems are going on at the other side. So be understanding as well.

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.