How to be the real YOU ? (Part 4 of 4 )

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Hello, Friends ! Hope you all are doing great!

Life’s  not always an easy ride. Well, had some tough days recently. But yes they taught me a lot and they provided me with some beautiful insights to share with you on this final blog post on "How to be the REAL YOU?"

So, here it goes:-

1)    Be Your Own Model

 Many of us have set up someone as our role models. They are the people who influence our lives in some way or the other. They motivate us. They inspire us. Directly or indirectly. What I urge you to do is, adapt the qualities of these people in yourself. Yes, it will be difficult. But, whatever comes free in life is always of lowest quality.

2)    Face Up Your Fears

Our Fears are nothing but those imaginary beings in our minds, created by us or the world outside. These parasites slowly and steadily eat up our own potential, our caliber and our confidence. And if you  notice carefully and go in detail about your fears, you will notice that yes they were imposed on us by the world. We have bought those fears from the weak minded individuals living with us in this society. Well, obviously you can't ignore these people but please, please and please go to your fears. A beautiful insight for you: - your fears scare you, right? Wouldn’t it feel good to you if you scare your fears away? I know it would. Have been there. Done that. Felt euphoric. !  I’ll dedicate one blog post to you on how to face up your fears. Look out for it in the future. Acting in the face of fear is scary, I agree, but yes this is the point where an abundance of growth resides. So, Fear your Fears. 

3)    Live Life Full Out

Let me ask you, are you really living up your life? Are you really being the small child at heart? If not, then let me tell you that you are still not living up your life. The real version of you deserves to shine out and make the world go wow with his/her expertise in whatever you’re doing. How would feel if everything that you wanted from your life gets presented to you in a few days or months? Now welcome to the reality. This thing never happens and never will until and unless you live out your every day like it’s your last. Small things in life, matter a lot. That chirping of the birds in the morning, the laughter of your kids, the good morning kiss of your spouse, the silent walks down the beach, that madness overloaded dance in the rain, all these things cost nothing and still we take them for granted and miss them out. I gently suggest you to enjoy these small things because they are the “living life full out moments.”

4)    Take calculated risks

All top people in every industry have the eye for a future opportunity. They all make calculated decisions and most of the times, they win out. What the mediocrity sees as a risk the genius notices it as an opportunity to amp up the game. Yes, the elite players know that the risk they are taking could be very costly but can you put a price tag on the feeling when you achieve success after doing the risk? No. You can’t.

5)    Smile

The first thing you and I did after the birth was a smile.(besides crying, just kidding guys) and still many of the people I know, they just don’t smile properly. I feel like asking them “sir, has the government put up some taxes on you for smiling?” Smiling makes us happy. It makes you feel that every problem you’re facing right now is small. And believe me, instead of going to the doctors and spending thousands of dollars to lower your stress levels, just buy some good funny movies and sit back and put your cell phones on silent. You’ll see the change yourself. It will be worth the investment.

6)    Burn your worries

Bruce Lee, heard the name? He used to do this technique. He always used to write down his worries on a piece of paper and then burn up that paper. According to him, that burning paper would make him feel as if his worries and tensions are getting burned.

7)    Last but not the least- Focus up your life on what you want, not on what you don’t want.

You want happiness, go for it! You want success, go for it! You want love, go for it! Do you want the best in the world? Go For It !!!

Life is too small… Why waste each day?

Stay motivated. Stay excited. Stay happy.