“What is your true worth?”
Have you ever asked yourself this
question before?
For clarification in this matter, I would like to put in the
fact that I am not referring here to the accolades or degrees you hold, I am
focusing here on the psychology that we hold inside of us. No doubt about the
fact that the tough times in our lives don’t test our accolades, they challenge
us emotionally, therefore I have crafted the following 4 mega principles for
you.
So let us deeply analyze and engage
ourselves in deep introspection to become self-aware of the true potential we
hold. Here are 4 Mega Principles for you to dial into :-
1)
INCREMENTAL
PRINCIPLE.
This principle
illustrates the idea behind the theory of incremental progress. Just as in the
case of an employee, his salary/wage increases with increments over time,
likes of it is this principle. Just as your salary gets increments, I believe
you should work in the same manner towards your goals you hold close to your
heart. We work day in and out for the
outside company, but we fail to notice the steady decline in the internal
fortress of confidence, self-esteem and consciousness that we hold inside. I suggest making time each day, probably for
just an hour, so that each and every day we can slowly and steadily develop
those attributes that we would like in our internal heart-set. This way you
will realize your true worth.
2)
EXCLUSION OF
“YOUR BEST MOMENTS” PRINCIPLE.
We all can
do the gym on a good day but who will have those guts to push themselves to go
to the gym even after going through some restless nights?
We all can
be happy and cheerful when all is going well, but how many of us can suffer a
big heart break and still smile 2 – 3 days after it ?
All of us can be best in our best moments, but those among us who can perform at their best while suffering deeply with some internal turmoil are the true heroes.
All of us can be best in our best moments, but those among us who can perform at their best while suffering deeply with some internal turmoil are the true heroes.
My simple
suggestion to you is to exclude those moments from your life for an hour where
you performed at your best, and then highlight those areas where you lacked
confidence or courage or strength that you know your “highest best self”
would show. Such an act of introspection will serve you in ways more than
you can imagine !
3)
STICKINESS
PRINCIPLE.
Can you give
me a 100% guarantee that you won’t let go of your dreams if I tell you that
you’re not worth doing it ?
Can
you look at yourself in the mirror and say that “yes, I am chasing down my
dreams passionately and aggressively?”
Can you say
“No matter what, I will do it ” ?
If you can,
then bravo! But most of us still can’t, the reason being that we aren’t that
much glued to our visions and ambitions like we know we should be to achieve
them.
Be so much
glued to your dreams and aspirations that you start breathing them, in each of
your talks, you just can’t stop talking about them, that is the effect which I
consider you to hold high in your mind.
There is really nothing that you can’t achieve then. If you increase your stickiness to your goals, ambitions, decisions, words, commitments, deadlines, duties and responsibilities, then I can assure you, your success will be guaranteed.
There is really nothing that you can’t achieve then. If you increase your stickiness to your goals, ambitions, decisions, words, commitments, deadlines, duties and responsibilities, then I can assure you, your success will be guaranteed.
4)
POST WOUND
PRINCIPLE.
How quickly
can you get back up when you are hurt by someone close?
Can you still smile and laugh wildly after a recent break-up?
Can you still smile and laugh wildly after a recent break-up?
Yeah, I know it isn’t emotionally possible to recover from such trembling times so quickly, but make sure that you don’t get stuck in those dark clouds for so long time that it starts becoming like an obsession to you. Believe it or not, but such form of obsession will then lead to depression as well.
How do you perform after such times ?
This question will surely help you in tracing your true worth as a human being and as a part of this civilization.
So there you have it. These were the 4
mega principles which we can use to determine the amount of internal strength
and courage we possess. I have myself applied and used them in testing times.
Even I used to be far from what I am today, but a journey of thousands miles
begins with a single step. So, I urge you to take this leap of faith,
understand the hidden value in these principles and use them at your disposal
whenever you wish to.
Hope you shine the world like no one
else ever did before.
Good luck !
Till next time.
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